How to become an Independent Girl

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Happy International Women's Day! And to celebrate this day I decided to push through this post that I have been delaying for so long already. This is the perfect day to publish this!

Here are some tips on how to became an independent woman/girl:

*Know What You Can Do

You don't have to be old enough to become independent. You can start as young as you could. Keep in mind that someday you'll live by yourself and you don't want to start feeling out of the world when you're alone. Start by knowing what you can do for now. Learning to do chores like washing the dishes, cleaning, and cooking. You don't need to let anyone do the job for you. 

*Make Sure To Learn Things On Your Own

We wouldn't be called independent if we don't do things by ourselves.Learn new things or enhance the ones you already know. As much as possible, we do what we have to do. We don't have to rely on someone else to do something for us. Because independent woman/girl does the job herself. 

*Being Alone Isn't A Problem

Being independent doesn't mean we are always alone. It's just that there will be times that we will be ALONE. And that thought shouldn't terrify us. We can get through anything by ourselves. We always have to think that we only have ourselves and to love ourselves. And there is nothing wrong with ME MYSELF AND I. 

*Time And Money Management

Not only we can manage to be alone or to do stuff by ourselves. We also have to learn to manage our time and money.We have everything planned. Most especially our time. We will be one of those people who have their shizt together. We don't slack cause we have to finish everything.  Being independent doesn't have to mean that you have to provide for yourself. Even if we receive cash from our parents or still living under the same roof with your parents doesn't mean we can't be considered as independent gals. 

*The Perfect Mind Set

We always have to think ahead of everything. Not just on what to eat later but thinking about more further like the future. We always see ourselves being successful so we strive for the best. We don't just "go with the flow" we manage the flow. We don't settle for less.

*Be that STRONG woman/girl

We're not perfect there will be times where we will fail. But no matter what happens, even if someone brings us down, we will still get up and continue life. Because we're STRONG. We're build to bring ourselves up. Being independent comes with being strong. Being strong enough to weather the storms. 

Being a Strong Independent woman/girl takes a lot of courage. But don't be terrified, you might thank yourself in the future for becoming that. Don't forget to love yourself first and everything will follow.

Go gorg!

Love, Isha <3